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A selfish person won’t care about your feelings, and will keep hurting you.
In other words, they always do what’s best and convenient for them, but never both of you as a unit.
If you were to send them a naked picture, however, that person would respond right away because it works in their favor to do so — in order to get more from you.
You see, it’s another opportunity for them to profit (unlike a real conversation where that person has to also give in return).
Men feel attraction, act on the attraction, but don’t determine whether they like you as a person or are emotionally ready for a relationship until AFTER. What’s not common is the amount of psychological abuse you seem to be willing to put yourself through in order to win back this douchecanoe.
This is because they don’t care about you, they care about them.
They want to do as little work as possible because if not, they are doing something selfless, which is not who they are.
They don’t want to inconvenience themselves for someone else. If you tell your partner something makes you upset, he should make an effort to fix the problem so you won’t get hurt again.
Lisa and Barnaby can’t really go out of their way to help others. However, they may be extremely demanding of others and unforgiving when they feel let down by their friends and family, but the door doesn’t swing both ways.
Some basically selfish people will help when asked, but will not spontaneously offer, simply because it does not occur to them.